Do you think men or women get more upset or suspicious about cheating and infidelity in their partners?
Written by admin on February 11, 2010 – 5:30 pm -This is NOT asking whether men cheat more or women cheat more.
Which gender do you feel reacts harsher or more violently to cheating?
Which gender do you feel is more suspicious about unfaithful behavior?
Essentially, in what ways do you feel that men and women behave DIFFERENTLY in response to a cheating (or suspected cheating) partner?
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Posted in Cheating Women | 6 Comments »
By scottishguy111 on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
Spiraled has it right, women react with more emotion, although i think men can be more physically violent, but it is harder for men to be faithful as we are here to multiply and a guy is hardwired to multiply and the easiest way to do this is to have many partners, whereas a women can only have one kid at a time taking nearly a year, so they are not programmed to “sleep around” men are since we have no physical ties after the deed is done.
By Java Jutee on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
Its women on all accounts, more sensitive and usually right about the spouse cheating. As for men they will leave if the wife is found unfaithful.
By Frigtastic on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
more women get suspicious of cheating
more men react harsher or violently to cheating
By Ashley D on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
women. i know two men who were cheated on. both had reactions that involved putting her stuff on the front lawn and leaving it there for her to collect. no violence, just a few wet belongings depending on what time of year the stuff was left on the lawn.
then i know two women who were cheated on. one chased her now ex out of his dorm room, part way across campus and then pushed him down a flight of stairs. that was 2 years ago and there is STILL restraining order stuff being worked out.
then the other woman i know found out and started scratching the hell out of him. like, this dude has scars down his back from her fingernails and whatnot.
i do think that their are exceptions to every rule of course, but men seem to react to cheating by trying to humiliate the woman who cheated on them. whether that involves leaving all her stuff on the front lawn or posting all the naughty photos and videos they ever made on the internet. women more or less go for the throat, and will react in some sort of violent fashion. i live in wisconsin where three women recently glued some dudes junk to his stomach because he cheated. wheee.
please note, i didnt say ALL woman react with violence. but they do seem to be the ones much more prone to it.
i am a woman and i was cheated on. i told him to fuck off, that i never wanted to see or hear from him again, shut the door, and that was it
By Jay on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
Most of the findings obtained from studies show that men and women exhibit an equal level of jealousy (Demirtaş and Dönmez 2006, Hupka 1981, Pines and Aronson 1983, White 1981).
And to date there is no convincing evidence that either men or women respond more negatively to being cheated on (but my guess is that there are methodological problems with that).
Research also tends to show that men are more likely to blame others for partners cheating whereas women tend to take the anger inwards and blame themselves.
By gurlie_gurl_58967 on Feb 11, 2010 | Reply
women