Why Women Cheat On Their Mate
Written by admin on March 16, 2009 – 5:10 pm -
Motivational Speaker and Life Coach Ina is sharing a few reasons why women cheat. www.theinashow.com
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Posted in Cheating Women | 25 Comments »
By TheToltec on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I think you are …
I think you are great and very smart. I think your advice is gold. You have balance and are for real. If more women were like you the world would be a fantastic place to live. I struggle with hating women a lot. Now I at least see that there are some who really know what is going on. Thank you for being here:)
Love:)
Henry
By kaymany on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
fellas 90% women …
fellas 90% women who don’t get her correct dose of sex will cheat . no matter what you say or do .
By DarkHorseJ27 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I’ve been trying to …
I’ve been trying to figure out why my wife cheated on me. From what you’ve been saying its that she felt taken for granted or felt unloved. I never took her for granted, and the night before she first cheated I took her out on the town. The only thing I didn’t do for her that she wanted is giver her a baby, but that is because we weren’t ready. After everytime she cheated she came back and wanted to work it out. Everytime I agreed to work it out and forgave her she cheated again.
By manofdahour989 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I think people …
I think people always wanting a dream person is a huge factor in cheating. A fantasy can always be better than a reality no matter how good a real person is. We need to stop looking for and expecting dream people. Dreaming of Mr or Mrs Right has people leaving person after person and not being committed.
By rep5281 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
It would be …
It would be interesting to know her opinion on a cheater.
By CrackPaK on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
Real intelligent …
Real intelligent Sista speaking
By jonathanlisto on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I also think its …
I also think its harder for women to practice restraint when they have us hound dog guys attempting to engage with them every five seconds. So us guys have to continuously show women we appreciate them (like theinashow1 is talking about)to counter block the other hound dog guys trying to play mac daddy with the ladies. That way the women can see other guys as what they are meant to be, “Confidence Boosters”, and not “Possible Intimate Parnter”.
By theinashow1 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
THAT’S TRUE TOO!
THAT’S TRUE TOO!
By jonathanlisto on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I think men and …
I think men and woman cheat because they find a attractive person that they relate to other then their loved one. When that happens the minute your loved one gives you a hard time, then “opprotunity” rears its head and the next thing you know you’re knocking the boots with someone you don’t love and your feeling torn inside afterward. In the end you have to practice restraint and know that its out of disrespect that you do things like that.
By theinashow1 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I never said once …
I never said once that cheating is “ALWAYS” the man fault. Go back and really listen to what I said. I gave several reasons why women cheat. That was just one of them. On my site I don’t bash men or women I give facts from real people stories to help someone else not to fall in a trap or simply answer letters of request on a topic?
By VyLinvail on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
From my own …
From my own personal experience (and a personal study I undertook whilst working for a dating website) Women cheat more than men. Not only that but women are far more shallow than men…
That probably sounds rather sexist but I’m not saying men are -better- than women, god no, us men are motivated far more by sex alone and we’re a lot less caring/nuturing than the so-called fairer sex.
So what’s my problem with this? Cheating is a sign of DISRESPECT!! It’s cruel and it needs to stop.
By theinashow1 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
Many women don’t …
Many women don’t know what love is nor do they know how to love themselves. It’s not being fickled, it’s lack of knowledge. Just as many men don’t truly know how to love a woman. It’s lack of knowledge, they had not seen it demonstrated in their own homes growing up. You can’t give what you don’t have.
By theinashow1 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I am sorry that you …
I am sorry that you girl cheated on you. It’s a horrible thing when this happens to anyone. No one likes to be betrayed after committing your life to them. You did not hear me condon anything. you heard me give reasons as to why and then I wrapped it up telling the women that it all stems from not loving themsleves.
I advise you to get counsel before entering another relationship, because if you don’t the new woman will have to pay for what happened to you. That’s not fair to her.
By blakpope on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
Don’t go down the …
Don’t go down the path of ignorance. That is basically what you are condoning in you little video blog. Ignorance! If you don’t feel the same just be a grown women & leave. Don’t try to become a yolk around a man neck. I work for over seven years to make home for my so-called woman. I trusted her with no conditions. that same trust allowed her to “see another man behind my back” & ” I was stupid for not seeing it” these are her own words. Now I have to have this whore throw out of my house.
By JNdigital on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
too nice to them, …
too nice to them, nah…maybe they just don’t have sex enough
By 2reasons on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
Know what I got …
Know what I got from this video?
Women don’t know what love is.
Seems to be giving reasons to justify women being fickle
By g2879 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I have a one strike …
I have a one strike policy when it comes to cheating. If you cheat YOU ARE DONE PEROID! I don’t give 2nd chances expessially if I have to find out on my own. If she cheats once she will do it again. I just don’t have time for it. I want some1 on the same level that I am on and that is build a strong family and progressing through life.
By babybabybaby50 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
I cheated years ago …
I cheated years ago. It has followed me to this day and I am still considered untrustworthy. If I had it to do all over, I would have gotten out of the loveless relationship years before. I would do it in a honorable way though. My husband drove me out of the marriage by neglect and I was starved for love. I wish I would have learned to love myself first. I can look back now and I bet you a dollar, he was cheating on me first.
By theinashow1 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
Well depending on …
Well depending on how bad her past was. If she is not over it that can play a great part. Yet each man/woman is held accountable for their own actions. Cheating is not right no matter who,what or why. So someone who continually cheats is not good for you. However if someones past was a cheater and they are faithful to u and have truly changed,then they are innocent until proven guilty. Just make sure she gets tested for STD. Your life is valuable! If you have no peace leave her alone!
By THUGNERD81 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
how much do you …
how much do you think a womans past play in her future actions…this was my big dilemma..if u have a women whose past was promicuous but she makes statements like “she just wanted to be loved”….but she vows to be faithful and true emphatically to you..its like troubling because she required so little for a guy to “get with her”..now she is changed..how can a current mate make a commitment to a women like that….faith?? i dunno about that
By JnKnewKomb on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
she was true..
she was true..
By g2879 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
When the cheating …
When the cheating act is over you are still faced with the feelings you had b4 and after you cheated so in really it does not solve anything.
By g2879 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
You try to work …
You try to work things out as best you can and then if that does not work then you go your seperate ways. The problem is folks want the good love life but, they don’t want to put the work in to have it. There is no such thing as a perfect relationsip. There are going to be good times and bad time but, you don’t just take the easy way out.
By g2879 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
The problem with …
The problem with most people is that they equate love with a “feeling” well guess what? feelings change even in marriage but, that is no excuse to just go out and do whatever b/c you are not happy with the current state of the relationship.
By twin29210 on Mar 16, 2009 | Reply
fry up the bacon
fry up the bacon