Do you think it is wrong to talk to a married man about your dating life?
Written by admin on April 17, 2009 – 4:06 pm -He seems to really want to know about it & he has a thing for me. Is it wrong to divulge your dating life with a married man? Is it inappropriate? If so, why? We're friends at work only. His wife doesn't know we're friends, to my knowledge. Thx.
Depends what you mean. Tell him you're seeing a new guy who's a teacher and you're bringing him to the work Christmas party? Sure. Telling him you went on a hot date last night and describing the fantastic oral sex in detail…um, no.
Posted in Dating Married | 9 Comments »
By Mike the man on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
nothing wrong with it in fact you might learn a thing or two from a guy like that.
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By davidlansbach@rocketmail.com on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
Talking about it is not wrong. If he is having a surrogate experience dating you/other people through the stories he asks, that is his immorality, not yours. Beware though not taking this friendship too far, for breaking up his marriage would be bad. Naughty girl!
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By Jelly Bean on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
Right, his wife doesn't know you two are friends. Very inappropriate.
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By Shady McCool on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
Yes it is wrong! He is a married man and he should not be interested in your dating life. He will start seeking more personal details about your dates and may start to stalk you. Do not get overly personal with friends from work, it shows poorly on your professional career. Think about his wife for a second and let them enjoy a peaceful married life. He is out of the game and you should not be enticing him with your dating life.
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My life.
By mxxoxoxo on Apr 18, 2009 | Reply
Nothing wrong unless he ask you out. be cautious.
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By ◄ ☻ 09 Year of the Single ☻ ► on Apr 18, 2009 | Reply
in this case yes it is
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nice guy
By jude on Apr 18, 2009 | Reply
this is the way emotional and full blown affair begin, and its not right.
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By Sasha's Mommy on Apr 18, 2009 | Reply
Yes it's wrong……for exactly the reason you just said. His wife doesn't know that yall are friends. This means that apparently he feels it's inappropriate and that's why he doesn't divulge this friendship to his wife.
And of course you're going to say, well he's the one that's married, not me. But the person who participates in a relationship that could ultimately be detrimental to a marriage, is just as guilty as the married person who is allowing himself to be a part of the friendship.
He likes you, as you've said, so I'm sure you are flattered by the attention he gives you. But things you don't expect tend to creep up on you before you realize it and I see something more than a friendship coming if you don't end this personal relationship. It doesn't matter if you are only talking at work…..you aren't just talking shop…..so it has become personal. End this before you get even more emotionally involved.
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By alwayswvgirl on Apr 18, 2009 | Reply
How would you feel if you were in her shoes?
Wouldn't you be hurt if your husband were talking to a sweet young thing about her personal life? Wouldn't you be suspicious that he kept a friendship with a young, single female hidden from you????
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