Im Married To A Good Man But Having Sex With Someone Else
Written by admin on March 22, 2009 – 5:58 pm -
www.lovein30days.com Shay Your Date Diva answers an email from a fellow subscribers who is unsatisfied in her marriage and cheating with another man to satisfy her sexual needs.
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Posted in Dating Married | 21 Comments »
By gmcmim on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
you explain things …
you explain things good.
By mistanderson on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Something is …
Something is serious wrong with a person if they cheat on their partner and they got a good one. That chick that wrote you doesn’t have it all.
By kimmayluv on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
I feel sorry for …
I feel sorry for that man. If she lives in the DC or Atlanta area, more than likely she’ll wind up giving him AIDS eventually. Think its unlikely? Not for black people. Pick up the recent issue with Tyler Perry cover (can’t stand that magazine but the article is pretty good) it talks about this very real growing problem.
If she was a REAL, decent, woman, she’d END the marriage and give this man THAT much respect. Cheating isn’t just wrong today, its deadly.
By lovein30days on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
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whenitsrightitswrong, You must have a hearing problem …lol…bc I know I heard myself say that what she was doing was wrong. The purpose of the video was not to blame men (with fragile egos) but to expose them to how and what women think…all women no matter what race she is. I was hoping by sharing this information it would keep more good men from being played (exhale).
Learn something and stop being so quick to get defensive men!
SYDD
By SweeetPrincessa on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Listen you dont …
Listen you dont call people moron when you dont have anything to say. You were not in the situation so you probably would’nt understand. The was always askin me for money all the time for stupid things i never asked him to give the money back. but onky one time i asked him money for gas so i could drop him home he asked me to give him the money soon as possible. he was reallly greedy ans slowly i stopped lovin him. The 20$ was the end of it. Capiche!
By xxxxFootballxxxx on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
To SweeetPrincessa, …
To SweeetPrincessa,
Are you serious. You stopped loving a man because he asked for $20???……..you must be a complete moron.
By JeffrenceDT on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
And I would tell …
And I would tell that guy to get a dog if he wants loyal companionship =/
By afrolatino380 on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Typical black woman …
Typical black woman, never satisfied. if the shyt was that bad did she tell him. I hope this chick catches something and gives it to her husband.
By DjSharpVideo on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Watch ya mouth …
Watch ya mouth ot. I hate Internet . U know well u wouldn’t come out cha face to me in person. We seriously hurt people around here and dumb people like u wouldn’t make it. Nuff said. I’m no on-line gangsta chump!!!!!
By ryanj86 on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
THING! not THANG! …
THING! not THANG! you idiot why are you typing in ebonics for god sake
By DjSharpVideo on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
A woman should …
A woman should never considering marrying until she knows everythang she needs to know about a man. And the same thang goes for a man. Make sure u know ya lover before they become ya spouse. People cheat. Is it a bad thang? Yes. When a woman does it it was a so-called mistake but when we do it we’re doggs and no good men. Marriage is real. Divorce is some old man made . That wasn’t a written rule.
By southphillyman on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
damn u spitting …
u spitting that HOT LAVA
By everettfrazier on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
what color is this …
what color is this weak mother……!! bet he’s white!!
By jaywood511 on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
this is why i cant …
this is why i cant stand black women.
By RAPST4R on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
if you have small …
if you have small overts that make you love your husband less, then its pretty idiotic to go cheat on him and make huge overts against him. of course youre not gonna love him more, after doing so. you need to save your marriage by 1) not commiting more overts 2) clean UP in the overts youve done by telling him 3) make up the damage until he is perfectly satisfied with you. not washing the car when you promised you would, is an overt. it doesnt have to be huge things. start ! lol D:
By RAPST4R on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
listen… theres a …
listen… theres a word called an overt.. thats when you do stuff you aint supposed to be doing, or not doing stuff youre supposed to be doing.. when you commit overts, because Man is basically good and wants to protect the people he loves from his wrong actions, he (that would be you) withdraw from them.. thats why youre more and more drawn away from your husband.. the more overts, the more you back off.. this is the reason why people break up, if they used to match completely.. think about it.
By EbonyChocolateKitten on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Ok I see what your …
Ok I see what your saying if this man did have any self respect he’d leave her. Yes love is important but you must love and respect yourself first..
I guess it’s the same as a good woman staying with a cheating abusive man. Sometimes it’s good to be alone and be happy with yourself first before seeking happiness with someone else.
Thanks for answering my question Kamochej.
By kamochej on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
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EbonyChocolateKitten – Her husband is taking the blame because he is being a punk, refusing to Man up & check his wife.
He’s being on what the street calls a Captain Save a Ho trip, or being a dude, a Simp, a “brown noser” or a “Square sucker. Or all of the above.
In short he is so happy to get some that if it comes at a expense to his self-respect, honor and personal safety – so be it.
His wife freely disrespects him because he doesn’t even respect himself.
By AntArt141 on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
What does what I …
What does what I said have to do with commitment issues? I am perplexed.
By lovein30days on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
AntArt41,
You …
AntArt41,
You really need to address your issues surrounding your own commitment fears. People die in car accidents everyday…do you sit at home all day? Or people drop out of school, get murdered, robbed, tricked, mistreated, betrayed, etc so what do you do, stay in doors away from the possibility of what COULD go wrong? A ship is safest at dock but it was designed to go out into the sea. Stop making excuses for your commitment issues and just face them and get them taken care of.
SYDD
By EbonyChocolateKitten on Mar 22, 2009 | Reply
Why should your …
Why should your husband take the blame for something YOU did. Be careful if you keep doing this he will leave and believe me there will be tons upon tons of women who will take your place and be happy and grateful for a good man.