One of my friends as been hurt in past relationships, how can I help them trust people again?
Written by admin on April 17, 2009 – 4:06 pm -One of my friends has been in a couple of bad relationships, in which she was hurt badly each time. Now she likes someone again but is having problems trusting him, trusting anyone. What books or other references will help me help her, or help her help herself, to regain the ability to trust people?
That’s true, sometime’s when a person experiences a bad relationship it becomes difficult for him/her to trust people once again. I have been a victim of this problem as well but I am grateful to one of my friends, who helped me come out of this agony and start a new life with a new perspective.
It is really very kind of you to be so concerned about your friend and i have few tips to help her trust people once again.I don’t think any book will really help you, help your friend.
Firstly, make her believe all people are not the same. Then, ask her to take enough time to be satisfied about that person. Last but not least, make her know that destiny brings gifts for everyone, good and bad, keep on unpacking until you find something good for yourself and trust me you will, definitely.
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By Miss Love on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
By being a good friend to them. They will realize other people can be as trust worthy as you are. You can give them hope!
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By trien to get her on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
give it time she will shine
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By Alex on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
”Regain the ability to trust ppl”…That’s a little bit complicated. And old man told me once: If you trust people, it’s good, but if you don’t trust them, it’s better:) What could I say…if she likes someone, and thinks about having a relationship with the guy, she better take it like an adventure first, so she won’t be hurt another time. If the guy acts like a NORMAL one that really wants a real relationship with her, then she should start trusting him. Take care:)
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By emilyjason2 on Apr 17, 2009 | Reply
That’s true, sometime’s when a person experiences a bad relationship it becomes difficult for him/her to trust people once again. I have been a victim of this problem as well but I am grateful to one of my friends, who helped me come out of this agony and start a new life with a new perspective.
It is really very kind of you to be so concerned about your friend and i have few tips to help her trust people once again.I don’t think any book will really help you, help your friend.
Firstly, make her believe all people are not the same. Then, ask her to take enough time to be satisfied about that person. Last but not least, make her know that destiny brings gifts for everyone, good and bad, keep on unpacking until you find something good for yourself and trust me you will, definitely.
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