25 Responses to “Vlog-Rekindling Old Relationships”

1. By amilya07 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   going back?
   is …
   going back?
   is like triple times the hurt when in didnt work out.
   just an opinion

2. By 1xellus1 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   u look so pretty. …
   u look so pretty. love ur makeup & hair. :O)

3. By SoftandBeautiful77 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   You are absolutely …
   You are absolutely right about being in a different place than the other person….my ways have changed tremendously and i don’t need someone from my past judging me on how i used to be…sometimes we prefer to go back to that person because we feel like we know them and we don’t know want to start over again with someone new, but sometimes its worth the risk…

4. By msoakland on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   This was a great …
   This was a great vid. For me, an ex is an ex is an ex and there is no going back. Old friends, it would depend on how we ended. I will be back to check out your other Vlogs

5. By tha1stpresident on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   I tried to make …
   I tried to make things work with this guy(he said I was his 1st love&we had 4years invested) but when we would talk I would always think back about why we broke-up in the 1st place. Make a long story short we didn’t work it out&he recently got married

6. By katiapearl1 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   Pray !!! ask Christ …
   Pray !!! ask Christ for guidance, signs if you should persue this. And be the grown up in this situation if I may say it like this and if you really truly want to speak to him for answers CALL HIM BACK!!!! until you reach him!! block your number if you have to but see where you guys stand!!!!

7. By XthickmadameX on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   My husband and I …
   My husband and I dated years ago….I felt that he was moving too fast and I was not ready to settle down (Mia had a wild streak…lol)…so I ended things. Years later, we saw each other, he asked me out and at this time, I was in a place where I was ready to settle down and it all worked out beautifully. Great vid as always, Jen. You look so beautiful!

8. By smartnessness on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   I think it all …
   I think it all depends on how you ended that relationship, or friendship with that person. If the relationship ended on good terms then why not give it another try? On bad terms, I wouldn’t recommend it. But you always have to remember to have closure. If not, then you might ALWAYS feel that you owe that person something, even when you don’t.

9. By amoona82 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

   there r some ppl in …
   there r some ppl in my life that i hope i never see again…cuz even if they come back and they’re “changed” i’ll always keep the back of mind the feelings i had about them when they left…once i’m over something i’m OVER it (wheather its a romantic relationship or friend relationship)

10. By hydeparkmac on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I agree. If I …
    I agree. If I wanted to be with that person, we would have still be together.

11. By daybringsjoy on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I’ve been married …
    I’ve been married 13yr. I dated my husband in the 7th, 9th 12th grade after that we married different people had children. When I was 33 years old we met again we have been together ever since

12. By heavenzbest1 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    Sometimes I think, …
    Sometimes I think, ONCE an EX always an EX. He was an EX for a reason. I do not go back. Sometimes a fresh start is the BEST START…

13. By brimuise on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    i totally agree …
    i totally agree with you if they really liked you they wouldnt have not talked to you for a couple years. and if that guy really wanted you for the right reasons, he you have gone to the ends of the earth to get in contact with you!!!

14. By ghostwritercha on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    It depends on how …
    It depends on how the relationship ended. I was friends with a guy that lived a few blocks from me. We had a pretty good friendship.He moved away and so did I. Seven years past in between us
    seeing each other again. He’s my husband now! Sometimes the people in your past need to grow up a bit and go through things to be a better person for the one they are meant to be with. I always say,” It will be greater later”. Hope this helps.

15. By paulababe1985 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I think some people …
    I think some people are capable of changing but they’d have to prove it especially if the relationship wasn’t going at all well. But I would feel like the problem would still be there or distrust I personally don’t see myself getting to the relationship again as in to where it left off!!! Because betrayal just really bothers me!!!

16. By paulababe1985 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I think its okay as …
    I think its okay as long as its not an ex bf I mean they are x’s for a reason past. Other than that real friends keep in touch so I don’t keep in touch with people who have done horrible things to me so yeah usually when the significant other is bothering is because they feel lonely and think that the exs are there all the time that !!! sorry excuse my language that just really bothers me. I pretty much leave the past in the past and focus more on the present and future!!!

17. By faeluv25 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    My promise 2 my …
    My promise 2 my self this year is 2 stop being good ol Farah that men from my past can call or relay on just bc they have no one else. This seems to be a trend we break up but they STILL call, come by after disappearing for a while. Making commitments 2 other people…NEVER to me. I realize that this is standing in the way of me find a healthy relationship and it has got to stop. So for me I will not rekindle or revisit any relationships/dating situations unless they are ready 2 accept all of me

18. By unelson on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I think everything …
    I think everything happens for a reason, if God closed that door, it may be hard to accept cuz u still have feelings, but there is a reason why they are out of ur life. I’ve thought about goin back to some people, but even if I started just talkin to them again, I notice the same things that made me want to leave them alone in the first place. And I find that I’ve grown past that place with those people u know!

19. By NappESoul on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I say there was a …
    I say there was a reason that you ended the relationship and usually those reasons don’t disappear. What people call bad timing sometimes can be other issues under the surface. IDK?????

20. By GigglesnGaggie on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I tried 2 rekindle …
    I tried 2 rekindle a relationship with a former BF. I was always the one that made the effort for the friendship. Well, shortly after we started talking again I started noticing the same patterns from the past, she was flaky. After asking me to watch her 5 kids, I declined due to my work, I never heard from her again. I was disappointed because she hadn’t grown in all of those years. Sometimes you can’t go back other times you can if both parties truly appreciate one another.
    Pretty gloss!

21. By shay4421 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    Wow!!  Well Put for …
    Wow!!  Well Put for All Relationships! So many people think they can just pick up where they left off. There is certainly more to “moving on” then just your location! Love this Video!!

22. By krob3879 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I really think you …
    I really think you answered your own question.:-) (By making sure you are both on the same page and that they now respect the person you have become) I really needed to hear this video. This really hit home for me. Thank you so much!!!! I’m saving it to my favorites.

23. By cutiegingerbread on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    i feel like because …
    i feel like because u changed..and perhaps he did too. it is a little shady that it took him a week to get back to u. i say try it but definitely be cautious. and i definitely agree with being on the same page

24. By HIMAY10NENCE on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    You always make me …
    You always make me wish I could type.lol.Great video.

25. By shortiebop01 on May 5, 2009 | Reply

    I think if there …
    I think if there are honest (good intentions) MOTIVES from the person who initiates contact it should not take long to hear from them. Sounds a little shady when they act like they want to reconnect and then take their sweet time to follow up being that they did initiate the contact in the first place. I agree with Steve Harvey in that when a man truly wants a woman he is in your face for sure. Its been true in my experience. P.S. Men are Stupid!