Cheating Women? – The 4 Stages of Dealing With a Cheating Woman
Written by admin on March 28, 2010 – 5:21 pm -
Numb and blank? Did you just discover your partner’s been cheating on you?
Do you have a zillion questions shooting through your head? Here is the harsh truth behind her behavior. We hope its starts a positive dialog between you two.
“Women Don’t Cheat! Or Do They?”
You are not alone – a lot of people share this misconception of the fairer sex. But fact is, evolutionarily, women are programmed to desire multiple partners purely for the benefit of the species – to increase genetic diversity!
In fact, polygamy and communal sexual activities were once the hallmarks of tribal societies. It’s almost as if Mother Nature intended her girls to have multiple partners but civilization fixed that.
So all, who imagine cheating as a male prerogative, rethink that theory and know – it was not your fault she cheated. She cheated because as an individual, she needed to.
“She Betrayed Me?”
Women cheat like men do, and often for similar reasons – feel-good factor, sex, control, power! They just go about it a bit differently.
Their response to, and expectations from the affair also differ from those of men. Men are easily aroused with mere visual stimuli and can have unemotional sexual experiences. With women, sex is a more intense and emotive experience. Not all women are able to have an impulsive affair.
If your partner cheated on you, and you know she isn’t the promiscuous type, then you should know she did it for a reason.
“I Failed Her!”
Men can get so caught up with their chief role in life- work; that they forget they share space with another person who needs them more than just as breadwinner.
So when was the last time you thanked her for dinner or bought her a useless trinket or took her on a vacation? When a woman doesn’t get the right signs from her partner, she automatically begins to wonder and then, wander.
You were supposed to give her something basic that you have probably failed to deliver. So she failed you. It’s a two way thing. But, stop guilt tripping. She took the extreme step, not you – no matter how you failed her. But you must also stop hating her, because you drove her to this extreme.
“What Next?”
Remember one fact – affairs are a sign of a relationship in danger but they do not spell the end. Especially when there are kids involved.
As the wronged partner, you can choose to learn from this error or, you can draw the line and move on, without ever knowing who to blame for the end of a relationship. But try to remember, failed relationships are not a one-way problem.
Women don’t just have affairs – they do it for a reason – for profit, for excitement, for revenge, for lust or because something is lacking in the relationship they are in. So talk to her and see if there is room for forgiveness and improvement.
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Cheating Woman! – funny4shizzle
Written by admin on March 17, 2010 – 5:32 pm -
Teddy Smith thinks guys are big talkers when it comes to what they would do if their woman cheated on them.
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I used to date this woman and now dating a man its been a few years,is it ok to talk to her now?
Written by admin on March 9, 2010 – 5:40 pm -I used to date this woman a few years ago was a very intense relationship.We parted ways.But now she has recently sent me an email but I currently datting a man.But she is not looking to date me again.just talk and maybe hangout as friends her husband would be there if we hung out ofcourse he knows we are talking through email.She is married now and I know her husband.
we were all friends at one time before he married her.So is it ok to talk to her considering the circumstances,that I am dating someone now? How would another person view this? would this be like cheating?
Oh I forgot to mention that I am a woman and when I dated this woman her now husband was involved as well.Now I am with someone else its been about 3 or more years since I was with them.
Well the person I am currently seeing feels this is a bad idea.So I was wondering what others thing.She happens to be the only woman I ever loved.
I meant to say think not thing. sorry
I will probably always have feelings for her no matter what.
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women can stop men from cheating
Written by admin on May 5, 2009 – 11:49 am -
Women are one of the keys the key to stopping men from cheating.
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